Girl, Get Your Guy!

Viral sensation and renowned dating coach Anwar White delivers a next-level dating strategy for Black women who are tired of outdated rules, and ready to be the chooser (and not wait to be chosen) for their perfect match.

Your Fairy Godbrother is here with the tea, tequila, and the unvarnished truth when it comes to dating. Girl, if you’ve picked up this book, you’re ready to date like you mean it, and with strategy!

Girl, Get Your Guy! equips Black women with a clarity that supports and prioritizes your experience in the dating landscape. We’re not only talking frameworks, girl. Four engaging narratives amplify personal self-reflections, landmark advice, and tried-and-true methods for navigating patterns that may serve you in the boardroom, but not on a first date.

First, we’ll hold a mirror up to the amazing woman you are and identify what you need (not want) in a relationship. Next, let’s build your strategy from the dating profile to your Olympic Dating podium, right down to Your Fairy Godbrother’s trademark 7-Date Strategy. Then, we’ll dig into how you become the Chooser. (We’re getting into strategic vulnerability and chooser boundaries. We sprinkle in some male perspective, too.) And hold on tight, girl, together we’ll explore some lingering wounds, the myth around being “perfectly healed,” and how to navigate the first 30 days of a new relationship. Every chapter will shift how you think about companionship to make real love possible.

Girl, Get Your Guy! is the roadmap for Black women to navigate modern dating confidently and authentically. It’s time to fully embody the queen you are. And your Fairy Godbrother will be with you every step of the way.